He delivered the “talk”, what should you do?

  • Tell him that you understand his points and would like to think about what he said. Ideally you want to win some time to process the conversation and for him to rethink his decision based on your calm, rational and wonderful reaction. He may, however, be unwilling to drag this on, and if this is the case, do not argue. You will not win this one. If he agrees, there is a chance that at the root of the breakup was a misunderstanding or something that can be changed. If this is the case, give him the time he needs and cut your fingers off before you start calling, texting and otherwise badgering him to let you know what he is going to do. The minute you do that, it is well and truly over.

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