People are unpredictable and the deeper the relationship the worse the devastation they leave behind. Even when we think that we know someone really well, they come out of left field and surprise us by how much we miscalculated their frame of mind. I advise women to come to terms with the frailty of character that they may encounter in their relationships and move forward with a firm grasp of the reality of the situation. I understand what both of you are saying, but my experience has been that moving on quickly is the kindest thing you can do to yourself and it is easier to move on when you stop idolising other humans.

Author of the Dream series for women, I love to help women find happiness.

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